Thursday, January 24, 2008
target audience: anyone out there that is interestedI will discuss this topic again on my first major return entry. hear my rant again! haha. erm......i dunnoe how many of you believe that in your life there is one right person whom you will eventually meet you somehow will know that person will be the one whom you will spend your life with. some people believe in it while some poeple do not. but many people out there are trying so HArd to find what they believe is call love and many end up being hurt and disillusioned. I believe that true love is that kind of self sacrificial spirit and that selfless desire in which you want the best for your partner. true love is about being the source of encouragement and comfort when the other person need it. it is a very deep kind of emotional and spiritual union in which you find fufillment when you do something for your partner. but in our sex craz society, the definition of true love seem to be very much influence by lust and that is y the way we express our so call "love"has taken such a physical form.( hugging, kissing, touch everywhere and whats not). in my opinion, a relationship built on the foundation of true love could not possibility be built withnin one or two days. one day a boy see a girl and he got attracted by her beauty and thinks she is hot. he go and approach her and they become to chat. and the next day, they went steadand everyday tell each other argh! i love u babu/ . this is all too common nowadays. my only question: is that call love? the deep emotional union that we talk about earlier. developed in 2 days?? and the word love was keep being mentioned. tat is y relationship are so fragile nowadays and many ppl have "loved" countless times in their lives. i would like to point out 2 basic difference between love and lust. 1) lust is self centred, possesive in natural and often have the tendency to bring hurt. when you keep wanting to touch your girlfriend even when she push you away, that kind of desire is definetly selffish. 2) lust needs to manisfest itself in physical forms, while in tue love, you feel close to each other even when you are miles apart. even when you are close to each other, u can feel the perfect feeling without having touch here touch there. what can keep a relationship going and steady? i have a list below to let u consider... 1)hour glass figure 2)big boobs 3)sexy butt 4) hour glass figure 5)big bicepts 6) six pack 7)pretty or handsome face. 8) humorous personality and charisma 9)smooth skin. yes, i hope your answer is none of the above. but too bad some of these things became the foundation which ppl built their relationship on when they stead. so let me pose the question once again, is your love really love? |
